Buddhist Women – The Story of A Survivor

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April 24, 2019
A 30 minute guided meditation and online teaching with Pema Khandro. Free and open to the public. Click Here to Register What is Dakini Day? The Dakini (known in Tibetan as Khandro) is the principle of spacious dynamic wisdom in Tibetan Buddhism. This is a monthly class to support your meditation practice and meet the […]

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April 27, 2019
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May 8, 2019
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May 22, 2019
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Invoking the 100,000 Dakinis

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June 7 - 9, 2019
Dakini Mountain ~ This meditation retreat will offer the extraordinary opportunity to chant and study Invoking the 100,000 Dakinis, an inspiring Tibetan Buddhist prayer from the Dakini’s Heart Essence.
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June 9, 2019
Join Pema Khandro and the Community of Buddhist Yogis at Dakini Mountain for this auspicious occasion! Sunday June 9th, Grand Opening Celebration    
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June 12, 2019
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June 26, 2019
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July 10, 2019
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July 24, 2019
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With Aruna Rig'dzin and Satya Shiva

July 25 - 28, 2019
Free your body of deep-seated toxins and undigested material. Far deeper than fasting can go, this weekend retreat will guide you in how to safely uproot the toxins that are buried in your system. You will be guided through a traditional cleanse based on the ancient wisdom of Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese and Himalayan Medicine. The retreat also includes bliss yoga, meditation, organic vegetarian meals, and communion with nature for a holistic mind-body renewal. The retreat will be led by Aruna Rigdzin and Satya Shiva, directors of the Yogic Medicine Institute. They have offered private treatments, group cleanses and panchakarma retreats each…
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August 14, 2019
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The Innermost Heart of Freedom: Dzogchen Meditation Retreat

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August 21 - 25, 2019
Dakini Mountain ~ This is a meditation retreat for the wired and weary to settle into focused calm, to rest into the nature of mind and tap into profound depths. This is the fourth Annual Dzogchen Retreat, five days of Buddhist meditation practices that will surprise you with the wonderful power and expansiveness of mind [...]
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August 28, 2019
A 30 minute guided meditation and online teaching with Pema Khandro. Free and open to the public. Click Here to Register What is Dakini Day? The Dakini (known in Tibetan as Khandro) is the principle of spacious dynamic wisdom in Tibetan Buddhism. This is a monthly class to support your meditation practice and meet the […]

Dzogchen Day Webcast

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September 11, 2019
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September 14 - October 4, 2019
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September 25, 2019
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Laughter of the Dakinis – Chod Retreat

With Chodpa Kunzang Dorje and Pema Khandro

October 4 - 6, 2019
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October 7 - 10, 2019
Vajra Sangha Only ~ Closed Retreat. This meditation intensive focuses on Buddhism’s esoteric practice for transforming the most difficult experiences into opportunities for awakening. It is a method which harnesses the heroic energy of enlightened intent to change neurotic mind patterns and heal from traumas. It is a practice for opening to intrinsic wholeness, loving compassion, and natural resilience [...]
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Dzogchen Day Webcast

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October 9, 2019
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October 10 - 13, 2019
Closed Retreat ~ The annual Vajra Sangha retreat is a private weekend retreat full of deep practice of meditation and study of Dzogchen, Buddhism’s esoteric philosophy. It is a celebratory reunion of the Vajra Sangha from all over the world. The retreat is led by Pema Khandro Rinpoche at her headquarters in Virginia, Khandro Ling.
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October 15 - 17, 2019
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Open Teaching Webcast

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October 23, 2019
A 30 minute guided meditation and online teaching with Pema Khandro. Free and open to the public. Click Here to Register What is Dakini Day? The Dakini (known in Tibetan as Khandro) is the principle of spacious dynamic wisdom in Tibetan Buddhism. This is a monthly class to support your meditation practice and meet the […]

Dzogchen Day Webcast

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November 13, 2019
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November 21, 2019
San Diego, Ca ~ Public Program
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Open Teaching Webcast

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November 27, 2019
A 30 minute guided meditation and online teaching with Pema Khandro. Free and open to the public. Click Here to Register What is Dakini Day? The Dakini (known in Tibetan as Khandro) is the principle of spacious dynamic wisdom in Tibetan Buddhism. This is a monthly class to support your meditation practice and meet the […]

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December 11, 2019
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New Years Retreat ~ Vajrasattva

January 20, 2020
Begin the New Year with a Day-long meditation retreat. You will practice Vajrasattva meditation, the practice cherished by Tibetan Buddhists for clearing past karma and restoring confidence and awakening compassion wisdom of your innermost mind. This retreat will be held in Los Angeles, Seattle, Santa Cruz, Grass Valley and Berkeley led by the Buddhist Yogi’s Sangha’s Meditation Instructors and Group Leaders [...]
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Nangsa Obum: Story of a Survivor

This is a brief summary of the legend of Nangsa Obum.  She is beaten almost to death and in the end survives and moves on to live a life devoted to liberation of her self and others. Therefore it is a story of a woman overcoming extreme resistance to her spiritual pursuits. Although those around her do not understand and actively work against her, Nangsa Obum’s diligence makes it possible for her to fulfill her highest aspirations in the end. Her story portrays a Buddhist life that is not easy, yet expresses unrelenting pure intention, virtue and determination.

Nangsa Obum (sNang sa ‘Od ‘bum) was born in wealthy family in south western Tibet in the eleventh or twelfth century. She was married to the king’s son, Drakpa Samdrup. However, both the king and the son loved her. Vying for her favor, Nangsa Obum’s legend tells us that the king and his son gave Nangsa Obum the keys to the royal storehouse. Unfortunately, this made the king’s sister jealous, since those keys had previously belonged to this sister. The king’s sister began a campaign against Nangsa Obum.

Nangsa Obum met a traveling yogi and began to turn towards a Buddhist life. Out of jealousy, the king’s sister told the king that Nangsa Obum was being unfaithful. After hearing this, the king beat her and took her son. Due to the physical and emotional trauma of these events, she became depressed and died.

Upon her death, Nangsa Obum met the Buddha of compassion, Avalokiteshvara. He told her that because of her exceeding virtue, he would send her back to continue living. Her legend states that because of this, Nangsa Obum returned from the dead and came back to life.

Changed by this experience she began preaching the Buddhist teachings to her family and servants but they were not receptive to this. They took her son, scorned her and evicted her. Forced into homelessness, eventually she found a Lama, Shakya Gyaltsen, who was willing to teach her. Through training earnestly she became a great yogini.

However, her troubles did not end. Her husband and his father, the king, came after Ngangsa Obum. They showed up at her teacher’s temple with their army, intending to destroy the monastery, kill the disciples and retrieve Nangsa Obum. They were unsuccessful because the Lama used supernatural powers to defend the disciples and their monastery. The legend of Nangsa Obum says that during this display of powers, Nangsa Obum also revealed special powers, flying above the men gathered there. It was only then that her husband and his father realized that she was an emanation of Dorje Phagmo, Vajrayogini. From then on, she was allowed to practice Buddhism and study with her teacher who was supported by the king.

This is my brief summary of the short version of Obum’s life by Schaeffer (see below), who based his version on previous versions. Apparently, Nangsa Obum’s story had appeared in the numerous previous renditions by Gelek Namgyal and Phoebe Harper (1984), Duncan (1955), Waddell (1895), Cunningham (1940) and Bacot (1924).

References:

(1) Allione, Tsultrim. Women Of Wisdom. Revised edition. Ithaca, NY: Snow Lion, 2000. Print.

(2) Gross, Rita M. Buddhism After Patriarchy: A Feminist History, Analysis, and Reconstruction of Buddhism. SUNY Press, 1993. Print.

(3) Schaeffer, Kurtis R. Himalayan Hermitess: The Life of a Tibetan Buddhist Nun. Oxford University Press, 2004. Print.


Pema Khandro
Pema Khandro is a Tibetan Buddhist scholar, humanitarian, and teacher in the rare lineage of Tibet’s Buddhist Yogis. Raised in the west, ordained in the Nyingma lineage, enthroned as a tulku and trained as an academic, Pema Khandro presents both a traditional perspective and a modern voice. Read more at: https://www.pemakhandro.org/pema-khandro-extended-biography/